Men fall in love through their eyes. They are attracted by beautiful things. That’s pretty obvious. In contrast, women fall in love through their ears. what do I mean? I mean a man can win a woman over by telling her the ‘right’ things...so that she hears all the ‘right’ things. So let this be a warning to all women out there: be careful ofsmooth talkers. These are the men that are brilliant at charming women. The know what to say and when to say it and how to make a women feel good. On the outside, it may sound like a good thing – and it can be if he is your partner and he only charms you, but these kind of men are usually not content with charming only one women. It’s a skill and a talent and should be used and enjoyed by many.

I am not suggesting that should you encounter one of these sweet talkers, you shouldn’t enjoy the attention – you absolutely should. But I do think that if you want to avoid a potentially hurtful situation, you should be aware of their charming ways. Make sure that before you react to anything they say, that you give yourself some breathing room and some perspective. You will find that once you are away from them, you think a little more clearly. And to all those sweet talkers out there...don’t stop. We love it. We just have to learn to be in control..